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When someone you love is moving
by Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D.
Your best friend moves a thousand miles, your aunt retires
or your brother's family gets transferred. They're moving from
Boise to Boston and you live in San Diego.
Moving is traumatic and you want to help, yet you may not
know what you can do. Don't be shy. Your friend needs you! Here
are tips from my book, Making the Big
Move
- Before they move, kindle enthusiasm by finding positive things
to say about the destination city.
- "I've always wanted to live there."
- "You'll be near the beach! I'm jealous."
- "You can have a big dog."
- Think they're making a mistake? It's like talking to someone
who's getting married. Before they're engaged, you want to be
frank. Once they set the date, it's a love feast.
- Give gifts that make the transition easier. Ideas? Gift certificates
to shops in your friend's new city. Subscriptions to entertainment,
cultural or sports events.
- If someone's really nervous, of if they're starting a new
job after the move, give the gift of growth. Many coaches and
counselors accept gift certificates, if the client is enthused
about doing the work.
- Call on packing day and moving day. Call when your friend
is due to arrive in his new home. Send letters and cards -- more
tangible than email.
- If you visit, help your friend see what's good: "Terrific
shopping." "No traffic!"
- Don't be judgmental. Some places really are toxic to some
people.
Bottom Line:
Relocation is like setting out alone on an ocean voyage with
no Coast Guard available if you encounter a storm. A ship carries
sophisticated communication equipment and remains in touch with
home port.
When a friend moves, you're the home port. Help your friend
and, if storms erupt, find specialists who can help. Your friend
will change and grow and, believe it or not, your friendship
will be richer and more satisfying after she lands safely on
the other shore.
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